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And another interrupted broadcast

2010-11-06 - 1:31 a.m.

Tom, I know you're in a mountain of pain right now. You had a polyamorous situation thrust on you without much warning, and you had to react to it. I initially thought your reaction was surprisingly noble and thoughtful. We talked, we had some beers, and we laid out that shit could be relatively cool.

My opinion has gone in the opposite direction since then. You are circling a toilet bowl death spiral of pain and misery for absolutely no good reason. Seriously: what the fuck is wrong with you?

This has been a really painful experience for all three of us. The thing is, while Ratt and I accepted the fact that you are not wired for polyamory, your conduct fucking sucked and still sucks.

You said you were open to compromise. You quite clearly weren't. You said you were going to stick around, go into therapy with RattGirl, and that I'd come along to offer my perspective and all three of us could talk about this bizarre situation like intelligent adults. You dumped your girlfriend while she was in the goddamned hospital with an E. Coli infection and pneumonia.

THE FUCKING HOSPITAL, Thomas.

And finally: you said you were "fine" or at least accepting of the fact that you voluntarily chose to leave the situation, take some time to be with family, and start on the road to having a close friendship with RattGirl because she and you are best friends.

Instead?

I get a text talking about THIS?

Yeah, it sucks when genuine love happens in an unconventional way that some people accept, some people reject, but next to no one understands. I didn't choose it, she didn't choose it, and you obviously didn't either. It happened.

But seriously? Are you going to act like a goddamned teenager and destroy her for the sake of your pride and hurt emotions?

Grow up, Tom.

You chose this. You have no idea what we were willing to compromise on to make you feel comfortable and like you were the alpha male.

Just man up, deal with the consequences of shit, cry, rail, get emotionally distraught, and hate the fuck out of me all you want. But don't turn this into some gigantic misery party because you feel aggrieved over what you decided was a situation you ran away from.

You chose to leave. Grow up, get a pair, and be her fucking friend, you selfish asshole.

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